This is uncomfortable to say, but…

Why is it so easy to please or listen to others and so difficult to listen to ourselves?

It's so uncomfortable to think that we're running away, as uncomfortable as continuing to write this article. It has also been uncomfortable for me to be honest writing this, to be silent, to listen, and to observe my thoughts without reacting.

It is uncomfortable to listen to those desires, it is uncomfortable to feel what is bad for your body and to do nothing about It, it is uncomfortable to have deep conversations, it is uncomfortable not to judge, it is uncomfortable to be, it is uncomfortable to know that pain is also part of growth, it is uncomfortable to be aware of what you are doing, and why do you do it. It's uncomfortable to continue with the same pattern after listening to Tony Robbins a thousand times and not starting once and for all with that project or that change that you want to see in yourself, it is uncomfortable to be loyal to your ideas, to your principles.

We are in a society where almost everything is really uncomfortable, it is uncomfortable not to meet the expectations of others, it is uncomfortable that what works for you does not work for me, it is uncomfortable to leave the ego aside and continue writing, painting, dancing, designing, loving, loving without fear.

It is uncomfortable to know that what limits us are our own beliefs, our way of seeing ourselves, our way of seeing the world, it is uncomfortable to say that we love and accept ourselves as we are, but it is a lie.

Uncomfortable talking to us with love, uncomfortable to tell you how extraordinary you already are, uncomfortable to continue doing the same routine day after day, but it is even more uncomfortable not to do something about it to change it if you want to do so. It's easier to drink too much, smoke too much, be more distracted, and watch Netflix all day long rather than be alone with you for a moment and listen to you.

It's awkward to say yes when you want to say no, it's awkward to say no when you're dying to say yes, and more, please!

We are the stories that we tell each other every day

We pretend to be, we pretend to be happy, we pretend or assume we have the best relationship, with your partner, with your family, we pretend that we love ourselves as we are, we pretend that we accept our partner as he is but we complain all the time, we assume that we need someone to complete us, we assume that everything is fine, while we move away from our true essence, to make the person next to us less uncomfortable, in order to fit in better, in order to have more friends and followers, as long as we believe in the delusion that we are in control of everything.

Uncomfortable imagining the life you want to have and doing nothing to make it happen.

We are ashamed to say what we want and how we want it, we are uncomfortable knowing that we deserve this and much more. It is uncomfortable to know that we deserve to be happier every day, we deserve to have everything our heart desires, we deserve to fulfill each of our dreams, feel joy and confidence for the new things that are coming, it is uncomfortable to know that we are the only ones responsible for our life, the solely responsible for our happiness.

The process of growth and discovery most of the time is a lonely and confusing road, but one that motivates me to continue making this journey full of possibilities, feeling this sense of uncertainty and constant adrenaline of not knowing what is going to happen, where I have no expectations of anything and that's when I have everything.

How willing are you to be uncomfortable to live the life you want to live?

how willing are we to make friends with our fears, to be friends with life, with uncomfortable conversations, with desires, with dreams, with discomfort… in order to be true to ourselves.

I am not going to lie to you, it is very scary to listen to the heart and trust. But it is much scarier to remain paralyzed and watch your life go by. We are the creators of our destiny, of our paths, of our decisions, of this amazing and miracle piece of life that we have. Are we really living it? 

EVERYTHING YOU NEED IS ALREADY WITHIN YOU. TRUST